Be Your Own Stardom

How much do we strive for success, to achieve something, to be a better version of yourself, and before we know it...we have already given up.

Apparently, nothing can be impossible. As the old saying, there is no dream big enough to not able to achieve it, and of course, the sky's the limit. We want to grow but we wanted to stay, we may think we have it yet doubt it, we can but we don't. Ask yourself a question, clear your intention, then work on it. Have your priorities and your head straight. So that nothing could distract you.

The delirium comes natural, but it gives the hint of what's best for us. It always feel like choosing the next best thing. Because the best one has already been gobbled by our anxiety. However, we are not the lost case...like totally, if not hundred percent, then at least by 98. That means we still have that silver lining. Grab it before it disappears forever.

The biggest blunder that we do nowadays is not forgiving our self. Sometimes spending little time with oneself, give you an ultimate perspective about life and surroundings. It is easier to see yourself through someone else, but it takes a hack load of efforts to know yourself. To give reasons, to be a mess and still put yourself in upper ground, to believe that you can do so much better than the other people, to know the value of something or someone can never be bigger than yourself. And No you won't be called narcist. ( I mean you will be by some) but that must not stop you. Because to be a true narcissist you have to be stubborn with your ideologies and beliefs, you need to be so self-centered that you believe that nothing in this world is worth your attention, and that's the opposite of what I am saying. Beliefs should be flexible, they should be prone to change, because the world has so much to offer, and one life is not enough to know everything, to experience everything and to try out everything new. And too short for missing out the new exciting things, keeping yourself at the shore while the ocean is the place for adventures, to blame yourself, to always play safe, to limit yourself and to victimize yourself.

There is nothing in the world that could let you down unless you do it yourself. Everything is in your head- the happiness, the sorrow, the fear and the bravery. It is only a matter of time and place, what you chose and why you chose. Nevertheless, the ultimate goal should be to be Happy, because life is too short to repent.

While it takes everything to be someone else, it takes nothing to be yourself. Success doesn't just follow the lead it makes it own way through hard work and determination. We all have shared the pain of hard work and still not being recognized, by being good with everyone still humiliated by many. In order to avoid that *you need to take a mental vacation every once in awhile to reclaim yourself, to clear your head with negativity and most importantly to be yourself once again.

*the above exercise does not need any professional stunner or any supervisor. It can be performed under any circumstances with no age restriction. Please try this at home/office/park/mall/toilets/closets or any place that is subjected to higher mental risk. Please read the article carefully. For more subscribe to my blog post.

Coming back to the point where everyone is better than you in spite of the hard work that you do, even though you think that you are losing the battle, you are gaining the experiences and that's what is counted in the long term. Metaphorically speaking, you may not born with the silver spoon in your mouth but you sure as hell knows it's worth and how to make it happen or even know how to manufactured a goddamn silver bowl (or the entire crockery for that matter not just a single spoon).